Why do feminists list all the atrocities and tortures committed unto women through the centuries?

when realistically speaking, if we really tallied it up, men have sacrificed themselves in virtually all known wars, voluntarily or through conscription, the majority of homeless are men, and the majority of suicides are men also. Why are Feminists so myopic, and self centred and gynocentric and try to demonize men? It is not fair. Feminist artists in the seventies spoke about all the abuse women have suffered thirty years after millions of men had gone to war and given their lives to protect women and children. Most men protected women throughout the centuries. And they have contrived it otherwise. They were different societal times. Women really were more vulnerable. It just seems like a bratty, ungrateful attitude and the height of ignorance regarding History and everything else. Some of these women even referenced women being sacrificed, being disemboweled by men in Aztec cultures. Y'all everyone did that to everyone in Aztec cultures! If you won a sports game, the captain of the team was sacrificed. They were not good times for either men or women.