How do women attract men with rage?

or is it just a personality type that draws it out? how to avoid making your boyfriend angry? i'll admit i'm not the most completely sane person ever, but I don't ask for an overload of bad emotions coming at me.... i try to be compionate too but it's not especially my forte...... I want to learn better habits to make my bf happy and get away from the vengeful moods!! So what do I do?